Not only is their book a gripping fantasy read with so many of my favorite elements, but MJ James is amazing when it comes to supporting the writing community, working tirelessly to share, and they truly enjoy it. Today, we will talk about that, a writer’s life, their debut novel In-Between, and more.

Here is an excerpt of what one reviewer had to say about In-Between…

I really enjoyed this story! Part real-life & part fantasy, this book highlights the struggles Alicia had in life due to misunderstandings about her autism and being a single parent to a child with extraordinary abilities. I loved the idea of the In-Between world where magic & elves exist. There were quite a few characters that I grew to love and I can’t wait to read more about them if another book is written about this world!

Laura

Let’s meet the author.

MJ James fell in love with books at a very young age. Books were the one thing in the world that made sense and provided constant companionship. MJ was diagnosed on the autism spectrum at the age of 24. After their diagnosis, they went on to earn a BA in Psychology and an MS in Developmental Psychology. They are the parent of three incredible humans.

MJ is a fellow member of the FSF Writers Alliance, a great writing community, offering support, writing contests, a book club, and other resources.

I’m so happy to have you visit today, MJ! I’ve been wanting to dig into In-Between with you and find out what sparked the idea for the story besides the relatability of your awesome main character. Is fantasy your preferred genre? How did you come up with the In-Between world? It was the freshest take on a fantasy realm I’ve delved into in a long time. And seeing it through Alicia’s eyes as someone who needed to maintain control over her environment made it all the more fascinating.

MJJ. Hi! I am so excited to be talking to you! My preferred genre is science fiction, but I do love fantasy as well. I started writing when I was young and knew I wanted to be a writer. But when I had my kids my focus went towards raising them. When they got older I started writing purposefully again and I had the chance to redefine who I wanted to be as a writer. I knew I wanted to write science fiction and fantasy but I wanted to write books with autistic main characters where autism wasn’t the focus of the story.

Being autistic and having raised two autistic kids I knew autism was a huge part of our identity – but it wasn’t our whole story. I also wanted to write about a single mother – because autistic mothers are not talked about. I wanted to show how autism made Alicia a great mother, not that she was a great mother “despite” being autistic.

I added elves because I hadn’t read a good elvish story in a while and I thought it was a good time for them to come back.

The plot contains some darker elements, but that is because I wanted to show the autism experience. For example, 90% of autistic women are sexually assaulted. It is a horrific statistic – but a reality. It was very important to me to be as authentic as possible, but it is only one voice. It is still important to read from a variety of autistic authors from different backgrounds.

DLL. I’ve always thought of autism as an alternative way to look at the world but haven’t had the opportunity to speak to anyone firsthand about what it’s like. Alicia’s character definitely gives us that lens and her perspective adds so many layers to the story. I was inspired by her strength and how she allowed herself to go in directions she wasn’t comfortable with so she could support her son.

I’m also a huge romance buff, and I was concerned about whether I would relate to an aromantic/asexual main character. That didn’t hinder my enjoyment at all. It was a good lesson for me in how to incorporate rich characters and dynamic relationships the main character can still be immersed in for a compelling read. Also, there were other characters who provided the romantic elements I enjoyed.

Though Alicia gave us a compelling point of view for the story, Kenny was definitely the character that propelled me through it. What inspired you to create Kenny and this mother-son journey?

MJJ. Kenny was an interesting character for me to develop because he is a neurotypical (not autistic/ADHD, etc.) character being raised by an autistic mother. I used a lot of inspiration from my three children – but they are all neurodiverse. I have a MS in Developmental Psychology so I used what I knew to try and make him as relevant to his age as possible. He is also a “chosen one” even though the story is not about him. I think it adds a different perspective to the troupe. My great aunt (who the story was dedicated to) read this book with her book club, and I was able to talk a lot about it with her. It made me think a lot about who Kenny is going to grow up to be. Eventually, I would like to revisit him as an adult. 

DLL. An adult Kenny would be awesome! I would definitely be interested in more of his story. How special to have had an aunt with a book club and that sort of avenue for feedback! I love it!

Is writing fiction something you always wanted to do? Is it something you will continue doing?

MJJ. Yes! It is very common for autistic people to have intense special interests, and mine have always been books. I knew I wanted to be a writer in third grade. I was the kid who always had a notebook and a book. In middle school, I had my first story published and won a few national awards. I went back to school when my children were young and wrote a lot academically. I also ran a few blogs to keep my writing flowing. When I finally started writing my first book I was a bit daunted–but it was also one of the happiest days of my life.

DLL. That is a fantastic writer’s journey, MJ! I love full-circle stories.

What motivated or inspired you to get your story out into the world?

MJJ. When my children were growing up I hung out with a lot of parents of autistic children. Most of them were neurotypical and I often found myself translating their kids to them. I think that autism is its own language, the one we naturally know how to speak, and I would find myself translating this language to others. I wanted to do the same thing with my writing. I want people to see autistic joy, and autistic characters just being. While this is still true, I found my focus shifting. Now I really want to write for autistic readers. Everyone deserves to see themselves in books. 

DLL. This is the very thing I appreciated about your story–seeing the many different aspects of a unique language. For Kenny, there were no issues with understanding his mother. He just learned her language. Language continued to be a theme when they both learned Elven, and even how to see the In-Between.

Once you published, you didn’t hesitate to share through social media, and I was inspired by your TikTok videos. Your methods have demonstrated what I hear about a lot and that’s building an audience with consistent content. Was that part of your self-publishing plan? Have you considered going the traditional publishing route with future stories? 

MJJ. My original intent was to try traditional publishing. However, I am not very good with people. I was very concerned about the high levels of anxiety trying to navigate the traditional publishing space. That and it is not common for traditional publishers to accept autistic books. There are only a handful. Ultimately, I decided to self-publish. I’m not opposed to traditional publishing, but I am glad that I made the decision to self-publish and plan to continue to do so. I wish I had a great social media plan, but I don’t. It is easier for me to connect with people via social media. However, a lot of the time I feel very out of place. Here I am trying to present neurodiverse, queer, and non-romantic books. It seems exactly the opposite of what the online book community wants. But I love my books and I love connecting with those who saw themselves in my stories. It is the best feeling and keeps me motivated to keep going. 

DLL. There is always the excitement of being on the trail-blazing end of an emerging market.  I will be eager to catch up with you in a year or so and see where our readers are then.

What else can you share about being an indie author? For instance, how did you create your cover art, find your editor, tackle the technical aspects of publishing?

MJJ. I have the best cover artist! My youngest kid is an artist. When I was writing In-Between they asked to create the cover. They were only 16 at the time. It was completely hand-drawn, and I love it so much. They created the cover for The Immortal Part of Myself at 17. They are working on cover art for my next story also. They are now 18 and are trying to build up their presence as a social media animator. You can find them on social media as PurpawArt. Ironically, they don’t like reading but they keep agreeing to work on my next cover. It makes my books that much more special. 

For my editor, I started by working with Reedsy. I found a great editor that helped me a lot, but editing can be expensive. I’ve had to find ways of bringing down the cost of publishing each book so that I can keep writing. Thankfully the more I write, the more I have been able to connect with other authors and can help each other. The rest of the publishing aspects I do myself. I learn something new with every book.

DLL. It’s so amazing you were able to share your publishing journey with another talented family member and what fabulous results!

I’ve also found Reedsy to be an awesome resource–for services and learning.

You’ve also published a sci-fi novel, and the premise includes intrigue, evading murder, and rising above everyone’s expectations, including your own. That’s my take on it, anyway. Tell us about the Immortal Part of Myself. I love this title by the way.

MJJ. I had such a hard time coming up with a title for this book. Eventually, I found a line from Ophelia that included “the immortal part of myself.” In the play, Ophelia was an early foreshadowing of the story and it seemed like the perfect title. The Immortal Part of Myself is an adult coming-of-age story. I wrote it when two of my three children had moved out of the house and I finally had the freedom to explore who I was.

Riley, one of the main characters is autistic and genderqueer. She was never given a safe space to explore her own identity. Ironically, she is finally able to while running for her life, trying to escape her husband. I was exploring my own identity as I was writing this book, and I put a lot of that in this story. I wrote this book during the pandemic, and it has a lot of my fears and frustrations about the world. But it is also about hope.

The book contains two societies. Earth has become controlled by corporations and greed. They have silenced any voice that could add diversity and shunned Riley’s gifts just because she was not born biologically male. Then there is Mars where they learned that people had to work together. They find a place for everyone to fit and allow people to just be who they are. I see this division happening every day in our society, but I still have hope that we can continue to grow. I know I wrote it…but I love this story so much.

DLL. I’ve chatted with a few authors now who came up with a favorite story during the pandemic, turning all the uncertainty into a positive creative experience, for themselves and their readers. That was the environment that got me started as a writer. I was so grateful to discover a way to lose myself–getting immersed in my writing.

I can definitely relate to loving what you write yourself. That’s the joy of it.

I believe you have a novel in the works that’s close to publication. Can you tell us about it and any other projects you’ve got planned for your readers?

MJJ. I do. I am planning on publishing my third novel, NeurodiVeRse in late 2023 or early 2024. This is a science fiction novel about a non-binary autistic adult, Jupiter, who works as an educational technology consultant. It is about their struggle to find a place to fit, and find their own found family. The story came about while everything was opening back up after the pandemic, and my family and I found the pressure of going back to “normal” to be very overwhelming. There were a lot of benefits to the pandemic for us. While figuring out certain decisions for my family I asked my youngest kid to describe their perfect school. They described a self-paced virtual reality world. I built that school in NeurodiVeRse. However, I wanted to write it from the perspective of an adult so it is Jupiter’s story.

I also have four more books planned out–my first series. I am going back to contemporary fantasy for this series. Each book will be told from a different perspective, but they all live in the same town. I have already written the first draft of the first story. This will be my first story that does not have an autistic or an aromantic/asexual main character. It is about a queer trans man who is redefining his life and in the middle of transitioning gets turned into a vampire. I hope that people will really connect with this series. 

DLL. Wow! All of it sounds amazing! Again, I will be catching up with you later to see how it’s all going.

You not only write but are an avid reader and share an amazing wealth of content on recommended indie authors and their books. You created a great YouTube channel for this purpose. Tell us how that came about and what your mission is for your channel.

MJJ. My channel is a hybrid booktube and writertube channel. I talk a lot about books, both indie and traditionally published. I try to do at least one writer’s corner video a month, where I talk about things I have learned while publishing. The topics come from questions from other writers, so I hope that they are useful. I also have a series called Your Next Indie Read where science fiction and fantasy authors tell you about their books. This series is a lot of fun, especially since you get to hear about the books directly from the author. I also try to support autism and trans authors as much as possible on my channel. Mostly I just love talking about books and am happy that people want to watch. 

DLL. All great ways to share the wealth of indie books in the world. It is reassuring that indie authors and their readers can find each other through YouTubers like you. I’m happy I got to be on your channel in the episode below.

One of your channel’s features is writing sprints. I like the idea of scheduled sprints and I’ve tried them, but I’m so random with my writing schedule, and I seem to thrive that way. It’s a bit contradictory for a planner geek like me, and sometimes I wish I could be more structured just so I can enjoy all the elements of keeping a more detailed planner. At least there are tons of great planner rock stars on YouTube I can live through vicariously. 

Still, I’m stacking up the WIPs and writing so much I neglect other things. I might have to resort to goal planning, including long-term. How far out do you like to plan? Do you have a favorite system?

MJJ. I have actually paused the writing sprints while I am editing my book. I was having a hard time being social on the stream and then going to editing. They are two very different processes in my brain. I would love to start them up again if people are interested – after I finish edits of course. I am a planner by nature – I guess it is an ingrained part of my personality type. I keep a bullet journal planner that tracks my day job, my writing, social media, and the rest of my life. I don’t do anything too fancy, but I like that I can customize it exactly for what works for me, and fix it when things no longer are working. I tend to overbook myself which just ends up making me sick in the process – so I definitely do not recommend that. I hate not knowing the future so, writing-wise I have the next two years planned out. I am stopping myself from planning more. For my social media content, I plan out about a month in advance.

DLL. Awesome! Thanks for sharing your take on scheduled writing and goals through sprints and planning!

What other techniques do you use to stay organized and productive? Do you have a favorite writing space or time of day?

MJJ. How and where I write depends on what part of the writing process I am in. I write a lot at my desk as well as on my bed. Occasionally I pack up and leave the house if I really need to focus. I prefer to write late at night, but my schedule does not really allow for that. If I ever am able to write full time then I will absolutely be the writer who stays up all night working. For now, I either set writing times like the writing sprints or set certain goals that I try to fit in when I have time during the day.

DLL. Good for you on the writer retreats. I’ve tried to do the “leave the house” thing, but the results were more like one of my favorite Dick Van Dyke shows (aging myself here) when Rob Petry who is a television writer takes the opportunity to work on his dream novel in a cabin in the woods. Too funny!

Dick Van Dyke Episode 127: A Farewell to Writing

Rob spends a few days in a  remote cabin in an attempt to finish the novel he’s been working on for years, but he develops an acute case of writer’s block.

After doing so many interviews with indie authors this past year, I’ve been astonished and impressed by how so many of us achieve our dreams and goals while facing a myriad of personal challenges. You’ve crossed a few of your own milestones. What has been your biggest motivation through it all? Do you have any advice you’d like to pass on to our readers who might be facing challenges that seem insurmountable?

MJJ. Every time I see one of my books I still feel a bit of awe that I managed to create them. But the biggest achievement was having my great aunt read my book for her book club. She is in her 90s and her book club has been meeting for 50 years. My aunt was an English teacher, so these days she hangs out with people who work with books in a lot of different capacities. Hearing the comments they had about my book had me tearing up. Anytime I feel unmotivated I just have to think about that.

I do have concerns that I will never find my audience. I am grateful that people are reading my books, but financially I am not even breaking even on publishing. It makes it hard to believe that I will ever be able to write full-time, but then I step back and look how far I have come and I know I have no other option than to keep moving forward. I cannot imagine myself not writing.

I would suggest that you don’t worry so much about how much progress you are making, just that you are making progress. Eventually, you will look back and be in awe of how much you have accomplished.

DLL. Again, I love this journey with your wonderful aunt and her book club at its heart. That’s a story waiting to be written. Thank you so much for joining me on my blog MJ! Do you have any parting advice for those who want to start writing?

MJJ. Thank you for having me. It is always a pleasure to talk to you! My parting advice is to believe in yourself and just sit down and write. That is the hardest part. The next hardest is listening to feedback. Find people you trust–who will be constructive. You do not have to follow their feedback, but hearing what they have to say will help you to grow as a writer. You will never stop growing. Remember no one else can tell your story.

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